Sunday, April 14, 2013

And why it falls apart.

Relationships.
They aren't always easy as pie. Quite often, we choose to believe that once we get into something, it's going to keep working on its own. Like in businesses, we find it easier to depend too much on our partner rather than getting up, thinking about something and doing it so it improves our venture, or i should say, relation.
There is a theory which says has two aspects. One of them says that man is basically a lazy-ass being. He procrastinates till its the end of  the world and this habit causes many,many disasters. And when you ignore or block so many things out, you usually don't end up being happy or satisfied or related to anyone!
The point is, you can't ride a car with its front wheels only. Relationships ask for contribution from both sides. One just can't be on and off with it. So when we do get into something, we need to realize that both parties are responsible in making it up to the top. If you are not doing your part right, you are a dead weight for the other person and you expect him/her to keep pulling you up- then at some point- they are bound to let you go.
 Love, friendships and relationships ask for attention, commitment and sincerity and they deserve it! Because if you know their worth, you know how beautiful it is to love someone and to know that they love you back. Make your commitment  the one which makes both of you happy.Treat your better half the way you want to be treated. Give love to get love, make your life a win-win!
And remember, compromise from only one side is the way to demise.