What We Need..

Every morning when you wake up, you have a whole new day.
 You work, you hangout with your peers, you watch t.v, you exercise or you just sit in a chair and stare at your computer's screen all day long.
Yes, you have a life and you believe you are doing it right.
BUT when you go to bed, you aren't always sure if you are whole, if you are complete or that do you really have a life.
There are nights when you lie still in your bed, eyes wide open and you are somewhere far, far away. You are in a place where you are happy, you are complete and you have someone to rely on..
Humans are strong beings, most of us don't break so easily. We are determined, well built ,we have control and we don't let anyone come close to us or know the inner us.
Why? 
Its not the fact that we are emotionally dead, its because we are shy, we WANT to fall for someone, we want to trust a person and never let them go.
We want to be loved, we want to go to places only we and that one person knows, we want to show how much we can give, how we much can we lose control and break in somebody's arms...
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When you go to bed, you have a wish for a kiss goodnight.. You need a smile on your tired face and a glow and warmth of young love that last forever. And Ever.
We all need a hand to hold on to. whether we agree to it or not.
You can only be strong for how long?  Sometime, somewhere, you'll melt. You'll break.

Things We Say.

Our daily life experiences are often stupid and lame. We do things we are ashamed of and we often get caught.
The part i would like to share today is the control of your tongue and mind.
We hear things like "Think before you speak" and " Your way of speaking takes you uphill or downhill".
We don't give importance to these quotations, we have a justification for it; these quotes do not coincide with our era, that these are old and corny and that they belong to stone age or some other old-age.
Can we be ever more wrong than this? No.
Slip of tongue or as my friends call it " tongue of slip" is one of the major causes of major disasters.
We think before we speak, believing that we are right in every aspect and when the words come out, we feel as ashamed as anything and there are times when we say things that we'll regret all our lives.
I am not saying that you should spit honey when you speak, nobody can be sweet in all situations unless they are paid for it.
Just be nice, be calm and before you say something out loud, rephrase it in your head. Does it seem better now? More ethical and controlled? Better!

If that doesn't work, imagine that super rude thing you were just gonna say is said to YOU by someone else. Like it? i hope not.