Our daily life experiences are often stupid and lame. We do things we are ashamed of and we often get caught.
The part i would like to share today is the control of your tongue and mind.
We hear things like "Think before you speak" and " Your way of speaking takes you uphill or downhill".
We don't give importance to these quotations, we have a justification for it; these quotes do not coincide with our era, that these are old and corny and that they belong to stone age or some other old-age.
Can we be ever more wrong than this? No.
Slip of tongue or as my friends call it " tongue of slip" is one of the major causes of major disasters.
We think before we speak, believing that we are right in every aspect and when the words come out, we feel as ashamed as anything and there are times when we say things that we'll regret all our lives.
I am not saying that you should spit honey when you speak, nobody can be sweet in all situations unless they are paid for it.
Just be nice, be calm and before you say something out loud, rephrase it in your head. Does it seem better now? More ethical and controlled? Better!
If that doesn't work, imagine that super rude thing you were just gonna say is said to YOU by someone else. Like it? i hope not.
The part i would like to share today is the control of your tongue and mind.
We hear things like "Think before you speak" and " Your way of speaking takes you uphill or downhill".
We don't give importance to these quotations, we have a justification for it; these quotes do not coincide with our era, that these are old and corny and that they belong to stone age or some other old-age.
Can we be ever more wrong than this? No.
Slip of tongue or as my friends call it " tongue of slip" is one of the major causes of major disasters.
We think before we speak, believing that we are right in every aspect and when the words come out, we feel as ashamed as anything and there are times when we say things that we'll regret all our lives.
I am not saying that you should spit honey when you speak, nobody can be sweet in all situations unless they are paid for it.
Just be nice, be calm and before you say something out loud, rephrase it in your head. Does it seem better now? More ethical and controlled? Better!
If that doesn't work, imagine that super rude thing you were just gonna say is said to YOU by someone else. Like it? i hope not.
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